Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Facebook whiners

Some days i am wondering why i have facebook.. i mean i know i have it to stay in tough with friends and family.
But when i am wondering why i have it is because some people are just whining about everything and everyone.. actually most of the time my news page is filled up with negative thoughts and comment about such trivial things that it upsets me.

Well i know I am now whining about them but really come on!
There as so many things worse in life than getting a bad grade, getting a small injury, having people talk smack behind your back.. I can keep going and i am not singuling anyone out so if you feel hit then stop being narcissistic, not eveything is about you.


So much self pity over such small things when everything could be so much worse.. Why not stop and just appreciate the good things in life even if you are having a bad day. For most of you that is not alot to ask.


I know i am not very positive these day and i too pity myself for things and whine.. The difference is i do NOT put it all over facebook for everyone to feel sorry for me and write a comment saying something to inspire me. It makes me sick.. it really does make me sick seing all of the whine everyday over NOTHING.
How would you feel if i posted every bad thought i had on my facebook updates?
Would you even write anything more than maybe just a "<3", i don't think you would. You'd be uncomfortable and wishing that i would stop writing such dark things that shows up on YOUR newspage.
Well i wish the same to you. I wish you'd stop before you post something and ask yourself... why am i making this update?
You know half of the time i try to write some kind of update on my facebook it is very dark and negative and then i start thinking before i post.. "Why would i want other people to read this?" and i can't think of a good reason so i delete it, just like you should too!
If i need someone to listen i go to my mum or my dad or my friends... i don't need all of the 215 people connected to my facebook to read it. I don't need to wait for comments to drop in on that dark statement. I can just call someone and talk to them instead.
So stop being so egocentric and self pitying please because i am so sick of it!

Maybe you think im a hypicrit writing about it in my blog.. but that is just the thing. This is MY BLOG not my facebook page.. i don't force anyone to read this because it is not gonna pop up on the first thing you see on your facebook page.

So please stop forcing me to read all your negative crap because i got enough of that going on bymyself.

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